Editor's Note, Winter 2026

Even though some time has passed since our community was struck by tragedy, we continue to grieve the loss of sweet, innocent lives. Some will never be the same. The death of a child is a universal heartbreak, experienced by families across the globe. Our own Central Oregon community is not immune, and healing will take time.

One source of comfort has been the outpouring of love: generous donations from individuals and businesses, children’s drawings and gifts in remembrance, vigils and countless hugs for those struggling to find their footing after such an atrocity.

As we continue to process what happened, I find myself wondering what suffering the teenager may have endured and what pain he carried. Can we, as a community, make room for compassion?

I hope we can acknowledge that tragedy has many layers of suffering and learn from what happened. Where are the safety nets for boys becoming young men in a complicated world, one that can feel isolating despite constant social media connections? How do we recognize signs of distress, neglect or mental health needs before they become an emergency?

We cannot change what happened at Silver Rail, but we can choose what we take away from it. Reach out to the young people in your lives, especially when something seems amiss.

Inspiring people in our community are already creating opportunities for face-to-face connections for teens. Todd La Frenz is one such dedicated mentor. He recently started a Central Oregon chapter of the Portland-based Post 58, an organization that connects teens with the outdoors, providing an arena for personal growth and social interaction.

Community and connection have never been more important. We all have a role to play in building a more inclusive, supportive place where young people feel seen and connected.

Thank you for all your support.

This article appears in Bend Nest Winter 2026.