In a presidential election year, every day can feel like a week; every week like a year. It feels like far more than a week ago that Americans watched as the two presidential candidates appeared together for their first debate. The subsequent string of local and national officials announcing publicly that they denounce white supremacyโin response to the president’s roundabout refusal to do soโalso feels like a long-distant memory. And the president’s hospitalization from COVID-19? Started and finished, all inside this one week.
Here in Bend, the string of activity and ire around the notion of white supremacy came to a head at Pilot Butte State Park this weekend, where Black Lives Matter activists stood in front of a police car and demanded the officers denounce white supremacy, not long after a man pulled a gun on activists for stealing his Trump flag. The flag-stealer was cited, but no one else, as of this writing.
Online and on TV, the nasty tone of national politics has begun to shade local politics, too. A series of attack ads from a candidate running for Oregon House District 54 has been a lesson in the uglinessโand twisted truthโthat can come during political season. We’re used to seeing that type of ugliness in national politics, but we’d hoped that Central Oregon politicians were better than that. Candidates should be responsible for their ads; and voters can hold politicians to a standard of decency by voting out the offenders come Election Day.
Combined, the actions and activities from just this past week paint a picture of a house divided; of untenable and untreatable problems that signal a race to the bottom, both nationally and locally. We can’t help but tie all of this to the messages introduced in the new Netflix documentary, “The Social Dilemma,” which outlines how social media is designed to foster divisionโbecause division creates more web traffic, and more potential for advertising, than unity and understanding among people. Films such as this one represent small “wins” for those who want to see an end to the division, and a way forward that doesn’t make every weekโfilled with talk of emboldening the Proud Boys, of twisted, untrue accusations from political candidatesโfeel like another long, difficult year. We’d like to believe that humans can chart a better way forward for our lives on the Internet, and “The Social Dilemma” lays out some of the ways to do so.
Pay attention to any of the issues mentioned above and it would be easy to believe that things are hopeless. But not quite as amplified are the voices of others who send a different messageโone that may be closer to the truth that truly governs our lives. Case in point: fear and uncertainty being sown around the United States’ ability to execute a free and fair election. It’s a scary prospect, to be sureโand voter suppression is a real threat in many states. Here in Oregon, however, our leadersโboth Democrat and Republicanโhave long invested in voter access by way of mail-in voting and automatic voter registration. Meanwhile, our governorโalong with the governors of nine other statesโjust last week issued a statement patently denouncing white supremacy. And at the vast will of the people, the Oregon legislature, this year, devoted the majority of a special session to changing some of the laws around policing that were not serving the people.
When it appears that our institutions are crumbling, that our nation is imperiled and there’s no way out, these truths are the things to keep sight ofโeven as social media delivers you a type of hellscape hand-tailored to your internet-browsing history. To be sure, every institutionโincluding the governance of Oregonโcan and does need tweaking to ensure that institutional racism and police brutality and voter suppression, and heck, even outright presidential chicanery cannot continue. But the real workโand the real solutionsโare achieved far, far from social media.
There was a time when time did not stretch into these long, protracted and surreal episodes of ire, violence and nastiness. As “The Social Dilemma” points out, changing where we aim our attention can begin the healing.
This article appears in Oct 7-14, 2020.









Yes, we need non-violent communication practices or restorative justice & equity practices and circles in our community. I saw a really interesting documentary and made me think about how divided and polarized we all have become. I do think America has a very complicated history but if healing is to take place, we need to be able to come to the table and talk. It doesn’t mean agreeing but it does mean respecting one another and not be hateful. We live in a fear based world and media is the culprit, as seen in “The Social Dilemma”. I also highly recommend Deeyah Khan’s documentary “White Right” Meeting the Enemy”. I really think when you break it down, it all comes down to fear. We all need to be heard and understood. Her way of reaching across to figure it out is very moving. We need to have leadership at the national level that will heal and not divide our country.