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When Couples Counseling Works โ€” But the Bedroom Doesn’t

Emotional safety and sexual desire run on different circuits โ€” here’s how to find the missing charge

Dear Dr. Jane, My wife and I will have been married for 20 years next week. In lots of ways, we’ve got a great relationship. We get along well and parent together without a lot of conflict about the kids. We exercise, eat well and have friends. We work from home, and most days, we […]

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You, Me, Lizards and Mosquitoes are All Important

A case for a daily state of awe

I imagine that after reading the title, you might predict that this monthโ€™s Inner Heroes message is all about how we are ALL important. That is obviously the point of todayโ€™s message. You are important. I am important. So are lizards and mosquitos. Letโ€™s start with the dictionary definition of important. Important means: of high […]

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The Psychedelic Frontier

Who wins when Big Pharma enters?

Q: Eli Lilly just spent $3.8 billion buying into psychedelics. Is Big Pharma’s involvement actually good for the public, and who benefits most from it? A: A pharmaceutical company doesn’t put $3.8 billion behind something unless it believes it will be profitable. For-profit health care hardly ever benefits the public, but this question goes deeper […]

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The Medicine Cabinet Within: The Season of Smoke and Fire

Supporting health and vitality and making the wildfire season more tolerable

The smell of smoke, thick haze in the sky, and the knowledge of nearby fires can elicit a very real and ancient instinct in our minds and nervous systems โ€” to flee and get away.  This instinct has served humankind well, as those that developed this sensibility were generally those that survived, eluding otherwise catastrophic […]

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When Trying Too Hard Backfires: A Gentler Path Through Erectile Difficulty

Men have been given some misleading information about their sexuality

Dear Dr. Jane, I was married for over 20 years to my former wife. We had a sexless marriage for the last couple of years, but I never had any stamina issues when we were still intimate. Since the divorce, I’ve been dating, and I finally found a really nice woman โ€” we’re exclusive now. […]

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DEA Hearings on Cannabis Rescheduling Conclude

Is it legal YET?

Last month, the Drug Enforcement Agency concluded its hearings related to the reclassification of Cannabis from Schedule I to Schedule III. Analysis as to how it went is limited by restrictions that prohibited live streaming, cell phones, recording devices, or cameras in the hearing room gallery, which only had 20 seats. Hearing transcripts and audio […]

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I Want You…To Be Happy

A column about inner peace and joy

We cannot fix every problem in the world,but we can choose how we treat the people around us. โ€”Author unknownThe older I get, the less I knowโ€ฆ and the more I know. Go figure. All I know for sure is, itโ€™s true. โ€”Burt Gershater And I truly do want us all to be happy. Being […]

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Savage in Bend: Why Bend Loves Beer

A look at the local history of a beloved beverage

For this monthโ€™s Savage in Bend, Santi R. asks, โ€œHow and why did beer become more popular in Bend than most other places?โ€ A very legit question considering beerโ€™s popularity in Central Oregon. Two variables came to my mind when asked, both nature and nurture. The natural part of the answer relates to our amazing […]

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When Your Guide Loses Their Way

Answers to your questions about psilocybin

Q: I recently had a psilocybin ceremony that left me feeling deeply unsettled because of how my guide handled things. I’m not sure if what happened was a violation or if I’m the one out of line. How do I know if my experience with a guide was actually problematic? And if it is, what […]

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