Although they talk a lot about โleadership,โ politicians typically prefer not to do much leading. Rather than starting parades, they like to wait until one gets rolling and then jump out in front of it and pretend to be the drum major.
But last week we saw a rare instance of actual leadership by an American politician โ and at the highest level of the game. On Wednesday, President Obama announced that he personally believes Americans of the same sex should be allowed to marry.The statement was the culmination of a long process of evolution by Obama, whoโs gone back and forth on the issue, supporting gay marriage when he first ran for the Senate in 1996 but then backtracking and saying he only supported civil unions for same-sex couples. It probably was hastened by Vice President Joe Bidenโs comment on a Sunday talk show that he himself was โcomfortableโ with same-sex couples having equal marital rights.
How the announcement is going to affect the presidential race is a tough question. Obama reaped a huge and immediate reward in terms of contributions from backers in Hollywood, where support for gay rights is especially strong. But his statement โ at least for now โ doesnโt seem to be playing so well in the rest of the country.
Americans are deeply divided and ambivalent โ not to say confused โ on the gay-marriage issue. While a large majority โ more than 60% โ favors allowing either marriage or civil unions for gay couples, less than 40% favor same-sex marriage. And 50% say theyโd support a federal constitutional amendment allowing marriage only between a man and a woman. While many polls have shown support for same-sex marriage trending upward, 30 states โ including California, not exactly a right-wing fundamentalist stronghold โ have passed legislation banning it.
A New York Times / CBS News poll Monday found that two-thirds of those surveyed thought Obamaโs announcement was motivated mainly by politics rather than principle. Most said Obamaโs stance wouldnโt affect their vote, but among those who did, almost twice as many said it would make them less likely to vote for him.
The negative fallout is likely to be especially heavy among white blue-collar voters in states like Ohio and Pennsylvania, which are critical to Obamaโs chances, and among African-American Democrats, who tend to be more wary of same-sex marriage than their white counterparts. With the economy still shaky and the latest polls showing Obama neck-and-neck with Mitt Romney, every vote is going to count.
However things play out, Obamaโs announcement was the right thing to do โ and itโs going to be a game-changer. Although it doesnโt have the force of law, having the president of the United States on record as supporting equal marriage rights will forever change the way Americans talk and think about same-sex marriage and the rights of LGBT people in general.
Weโre hoping the parade that Obama walked out in front of doesnโt turn out to be a speeding train. But the political risks he took made Obamaโs decision even more courageous โ and even more deserving of THE GLASS SLIPPER.
This article appears in May 17-23, 2012.








In reply to: Obama takes the lead
AAARGH! You folks really are blind.Obama took no such “rare instance of actual leadership” as you stated, unless you count directing Biden to launch the trial balloon on Sunday to see what the reaction was. When there was no huge negative response – he “bravely” announced (three days later) his support for same sex marriage. Oh wow – so brave – ya sure. How about his record of vacillation on multiple topics – you acutely nail the other side for it – but not a whisper about him. Same goes for political contributions. You folks are so one sided . . . it’s humorous really . . . but unfortunately there are people that actually believe what you print is the whole truth. No wonder we continue to decline.
When a Republican changes his/her mind they are flip-flopping. When a lib flip-flops, well he’s merely…….. “evolving.”
Even on this issue BO wants it both ways…. he’s personally for gay-marriage, BUT, BUT, BUT he also said it’s up to each state to decide. There have been 32 states that have decided. 0 for 32 on gay marriage.
So while BO has said he is for gay marriage, the gay community and every American must ask him, “What are you going to do about it?”
We already know the answer to that……absolutely nothing. Once again an empty suit.