Last week my dear college roommate, Robert S. (aka Bobby), called to check in like he and I have been doing for over 50 years. Why we became roommates, I’ll never know. I was the first hippie at St. Lawrence University in 1965. Hair down to my shoulders, bleach-stained jeans with holes in them, protesting […]
Burt Gershater
Shine a Little Light
I am not a preacher, a rabbi, a monk or any officially designated spiritual leader. I am a counselor, leadership trainer, writer and ultimately, a teacherโa teacher of the things I believe are most important and too often least addressed. Topics about intimacy, creating inner and outer peace, how to truly listen and accepting how cool […]
Awakening Your Inner Hero: You are a Magician
Each one of us has the power to influence, even change our world. That is a huge responsibility. It may also be one of our greatest sources of joy. I never read “Harry Potter.” It just wasn’t on my radar back in 2001 when I was 55 years old and in the vortex of my […]
Our Backyard
Five deer strolled through our backyard yesterday morningโnothing new, but always a joy to see them nibbling away, watching their ears flicker as they are hyper-ready to bolt should they hear or see anything out of place. Total relaxation never happens as their radar system is always on high alertโjust like the rest of the […]
Awakening Your Inner Hero: I Love My Doctors
In my lifetime, medical miracles have become the norm. New hearts, new kidneys, lungs, knees. And that doesnโt even begin to scratch the surface of our infinite medical blessings. When my dad, of blessed memory, was 78 years old, he finally gave in to getting his right knee replaced. He was an athlete his whole […]
A Fairy Tale About You
Imagine your life is actually a fairy tale and you, yes you, play a key role in this illuminating story. What follows is an age-old yarn about love, its all-too-common challenges and the magical route back home to peace… Once upon a time, in the Village of Peace in the Oregoneous Region of Heavenly Love, […]
Increase Our Daily Smiles: One smile is worth more than we can imagine. More are even better.
I just finished my morning prayers and dance-exercise routine. A soft smile has found its way onto my face, which, for whatever reasons, wasn’t there when I first opened my eyes. Smiles are often not there as we make the transition into the daylight. My daily mind-body-spirit practice predictably exposes a few gems of light that […]
Awakening Your Inner Hero
Really? Really! I kissed mine for the first time ever last week and after just one kiss, I recommend it for everyone. Many of you who have been reading my messages over this past year likely know I am a woodstove lover, fanatic, connoisseur…all the above and more. In my younger days, when we lived […]
Awakening Your Inner Hero
I apologize from the get-go. I wrote something like this message in one of my earlier columns, but I promise, from the bottom of my heart, to take you on a much different journey this time. This is our eleventh month living in beautiful Bend, Oregon. A lot has happened during our time here…and a […]
Awakening Your Inner Hero
Some things are perfect and perfect basically means as good as it could possibly be. Perfection. How many things in our lives meet this highest standard? I recently asked my wife, Wendy, “Are trees perfect?” Pretty quickly she answered, “Yes, trees are perfect.” She didn’t know where I was going with this and to tell […]

