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Captain Hookup & Mail Bonding

Just waiting for the tracking number

Mail Bonding My girlfriends are all writing out their visions for a partner, as if they’ve met him already (“Thank you, universe, for bringing me this man…”). They claim they’ve gotten boyfriends because of it. Is this just New Age crap, or is there something to writing down what you want? โ€”Boyfriend-Seeking This apparently is […]

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Free Will Astrologyโ€”Week of October 10

I hope you are embarking on a vigorous new phase of self-redefinition

LIBRA (Sept. 23-Oct. 22): I hope you are embarking on a vigorous new phase of self-redefinition. I trust you are excited about shedding old ways of thinking about yourself and eager to revise and re-imagine the plot of your life story. As you do, keep in mind this helpful counsel from physicist Richard Feynman: “You […]

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The Dumpster Fire Within

It’s natural that you’d feel guilty about an apparent asymmetry in sexual grazing

The Dumpster Fire Within About six weeks ago, I started dating the nicest guy. I have some intimacy issues (basically, fear of abandonment), and having somebody be nice to me is new and uncomfortable. I freaked out one night and had sex with somebody else. I know this guy I’m dating isn’t sleeping with other […]

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