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Adoptee Strainer

Negative emotions are the brakes for behavior that isn’t working for us

Adoptee Strainer My boyfriend, who was adopted as an infant, just heard from his birth mom for the first time ever. She contacted him out of the blue, sending a perfectly nice message, not expecting anything from him. Instead of responding to it, he’s just sort of shutting down. Times are tough enough, and I […]

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Free Will Astrologyโ€”Week of December 17

Your output will increase in 2021

SAGITTARIUS (Nov. 22-Dec. 21): According to researcher Nick Watts and his documentary film The Human Footprint, the average person speaks more than 13 million words in a lifetime, or about 4,300 per day. But I suspect and hope that your output will increase in 2021. I think you’ll have more to say than usualโ€”more truths […]

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Flee Bites & All Night Yawn

His unwillingness to commit may have had little to do with you

Flee Bites I broke up with my boyfriend because he didn’t prioritize our relationship and wouldn’t commit. He now wants to get back together and has been sending me cards and letters for weeks. Is it foolish to give him another shot? —Red Flag? A man who’s all, “Forget the Tinder randos! I need you!” […]

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