Dear Dr. Jane, My partner and I have a great relationship in almost every aspect. Me (m 32) her (f 30) no kids, 2 rescue pups. Together 5 years. Not married but we live together with a chill guy roommate. Unfortunately, intimacy (the physical kind) has been a challenge for years. We try to talk […]
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Aliens, Odysseys and a Dunesday
I keep waiting to become more cynical about movies as a film critic. Every week I read one think piece after the next about how cinema is dying and no good movies are made anymore, but 2025 was packed to the rafters with One Masterpiece After Another. In a year with movies like โTrain Dreams,โ […]
‘Stop Making Sense’ is Landing at the Tower Theatre
The opening of the Talking Heads 1984 concert film โStop Making Senseโ โ a new and improved version of which is currently touring theaters and making a stop at the Tower Theatre on Jan. 14, along with a live Q&A with cofounder Jerry Harrison โ finds David Byrne on a bare stage performing โPsycho Killerโ […]
Free Will Astrology, Week of Jan. 1
CAPRICORN (Dec. 22-Jan. 19): Computer scientist Tim Berners-Lee invented the World Wide Web. He helped ensure its core technologies were released to the world without patents or royalties. Universal, open access mattered more to him than personal profit. That single decision was a profound gift to the world. Billions benefited. In his generous spirit, dear […]
Redmond Woman is a โResilient Warriorโ Hoping to Inspire Others
Mindy Dougherty has had a challenging life, going through numerous traumatic events dating back to her earliest memories at age 4 when she says she was sexually abused by one of her brothers. She spent her childhood split between Florida with her mother and California with her father whom she describes as a drug addict […]
The Last First Friday with Red Chair
The first Friday of 2026 will also be a goodbye party for a downtown staple. The Red Chair gallery is closing permanently around 8pm on Jan. 2 after the First Friday event. It opened in the historic OโKane Building on NW Oregon Avenue in 2010 to support local artists who needed a location to show […]
Free Will Astrology, Week of Dec. 25
CAPRICORN (Dec. 22-Jan. 19): A newly planted orchard spends its first year growing roots, not fruit. Underground and unseen, the real work happens. I surmise thatโs like what you will be doing in the coming months, Capricorn: mostly invisible stabilization and preparation. If anyone asks you what youโre producing, smile inscrutably and say, โDepth.โ Be […]
Spectacle Fatigue
I donโt think Iโm in love with the โAvatarโ films as much as I should be and that might be directly correlated to the number of movies that Iโve seen across the years of my life. Iโm fully aware that James Cameron and his team of technical geniuses have, with Pandora, built a world that […]
A Night of Stand-Up with Adam Carolla at the Midtown Ballroom
Adam Carolla is coming to Bend for an hour of stand-up. I spoke with the legendary comedian about burning houses, building houses, Californiaโs slide into the s*****r, and bidets. the Source: Have you been to Bend before? Adam Carolla: I did a show in Eugene and then I drove to Bend. I believe thereโs a […]
Have a Happy New Year?
Yes, that IS a question mark after the headline above. Not a typographical error. So, whatโs up with the question mark? Here we goโฆ I like and can live merrily with, Merry Christmas. Likewise, I like and can live joyfully with, Happy Hannukah. Although originally celebrated for 12 days, Christmas currently is often a one […]

