Each day in the U.S. more than 80 people will take their own life, leaving behind loved ones, survivors to struggle with the loss, grief and all of those questions that begin, “Why…?”
Too often survivors believe the suicide of their loved one is somehow shameful, or that they or their family are to blame. But research shows that more than 90 percent of people who die by suicide have an underlying, although, not always diagnosed, psychiatric illness at the time of their death – most often depression.
Particularly difficult for survivors will be the upcoming holiday season. To help, the American Foundation for Suicide Prevention’s National Survivors of Suicide Day will be held on November 22 in more than 160 cities across the country, including here in Bend. The program is also available online. For more information, visit www.afsp.org
Sincerely,
Nancy Baker, Bend
This article appears in Nov 20-26, 2008.








Nancy,
As someone who has an academic degree in psychology, I must take exception to your description of depression as an illness. While the condition is painful to the victim, it is certainly not in the same class as paranoid schizophrenia or the other major mental illnesses. Depression is, in essence, having the blues, being sad, etc.
An Indian writer named Jiddi Krishnamurthi is gaining a bit of an Internet audience these days for a pithy statement that he’s made, “it is not a sign of mental health to be well adjusted to a profoundly sick society”.
There is every reason for the surviving relatives of a suicide to question their relationship with that person. That would seem to be something that came naturally to our forbears when they lived in more rural and tightly-knit communities. Alas, a full century of rampant urbanization and atomization of individuals into mere “consumer-selves” has stripped a lot of the humanity from us. And made us much more vulnerable to sadness about our living condition; a condition which is really extreme if you take the long view of human history.
So, if there is one thing I’d hope to get across it is that “depression” isn’t an illness. In fact, it is often the absolutely proper response to the improper and corporately created “reality” that most of us are forced to live in today. Furthermore, by characterizing sadness as an illness, you are furthering the goal of greater profitability for the Big Pharmaceutical conglomerates who love creating or fantasizing new illnesses for which their products can be prescribed and profits be garnered.
Perhaps if people would concentrate for a while on why America is just such a freaking weird Empire and how we might roll back this madness we could lower the suicide rate and not have to read about how the staff at Walter Reed Army Hospital have to deal with about 1,000 suicide attempts per month at that facility. Didn’t read about that in the Bulletin? You never will. Reality is being kept from the public, while we’re being fed a diet of social illusion and “reality TV” that ought to be enough to drive any sane person to consider suicide as an intelligent response.
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For those not prone to thinking that they live in a country that is driving each of us crazy, let’s look at two events:
November 22, let us not forget, is the 45th Anniversary of the assassination of John F. Kennedy.
And in 39 cities across America this Saturday, activists will be demanding “End The Fed”, a campaign to force the U.S. Government to stop abusing the American public by doing business with the secretive, privately owned and extremely lucrative (for insiders) Federal Reserve Bank. Just think about this. Without the Fed creating the monstrous mortgage scandal of the last few years, hundreds of dispossessed and foreclosed upon individuals would not today be considering suicide as their only way out.
Ye god’s…somebody get Ray to the para/schizo pill isle!!!!! And don’t trip over the Big 3 auto execs lying
on the floor because ‘those sob’s at Goldman Sachs got all the money first’!!! Michael Moore should get a Cabinet Post!!
“So, if there is one thing I’d hope to get across it is that “depression” isn’t an illness.” Clearly, you missed the chapter on “clinical depression versus “situational depression.” The former is an illness per the AMA, the latter is the “blues.” Your credentials for making this statement are invalid unless you are an MD.
Loretta,
You may be the best antidote to depression I’ve come across in at least the last 15 minutes!
Michael Moore For Secretary of Humor!
Dennis Kucinich for Secretary of Defense (renamed Peace)!
Jon Stewart for Press Secretary!
Bruce Springsteen for Minister of Culture!
Amy Goodman For Secretary of Keepin’ Obama Honest!
Cherokeewill,
The AMA is a self-interested lobby that hardly can be considered an authority on much of anything other than it own aggrandizement.
Look at the history of the AMA on racial discrimination and you’ll see a woeful record of abuse of minorities.
Look at the AMA’s position on universal health care, its historic opposition to the amazingly popular Medicare system, its opposition to universal health care, its outrageous position that medicine should be a for-profit enterprise rather than a humanitarian service to the community and I’d say I really don’t give a hoot what your AMA says.
The physicians I totally admire today would not think of joining the selfish members of the AMA. If you want to see what a real medical association should look like, do a Google search for “Physicians For a National Health Plan”. These are the people I admire. They are interested in serving the People, not as is the case with the AMA engaging in endless philosophical sophistry in defense of selfishness.
“As someone who has an academic degree in psychology,…”
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From which diploma mill did you get your degree?
Do they advertise on the back of matchbooks?
Check out Duray’s blog at
http://www.911blogger.com/blog/434
and you learn everything you need to know about him, his personal and political views.