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Con Juan & Uneven Steven

Set aside everything you’ve read about sociopaths, much of which is probably wrong

Con Juan Lately, women’s magazines keep mentioning “sociopaths.” What is a sociopath? From what I’ve read, it seems like both my exes were sociopaths. How do I avoid attracting others? โ€”Wary Woman When a guy asks you on a date, it would be great if you could check him out on LinkedIn and be all, […]

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Bad Mommy Bad Writer

Examining the messy path of building a career while staying home with the kids

The pandemic made working from home while caring for small children all too real for many parents. Growing a career alongside the kids is at times impossibly difficult, positively hilarious and just rewarding enough to keep anyone from walking out on the job. Are you a parent immersed in the double-duty of working alongside your […]

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Letters to the Editor 8/29/21

Editor’s note: When we conceived the theme for this year’s Best of Central Oregon issueโ€”crafted by the ever-talented graphic designer Euiijin Grayโ€”we were hoping to be in a moment of triumph, in a time when society had beaten this virus and we could give one big thank-you to the heroes who helped us through it. […]

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Big Fire Fully Contained

With the quelling of a major fire, air quality in Central Oregon expected to improve

An air quality alert from the National Weather Service expired at noon on Monday, bringing an end to a hazy weekend of unhealthy air quality in Central Oregon. Temperature drops are expected from the high 90s of the weekend into the 70s by midweek. Fire officials hope the lower temperatures and increased humidity will improve […]

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Ancestry Dot Con

If you have to give a 40-year-old kid a home in your basement, the kid should at least be yours

Ancestry Dot Con I’m a single woman in my mid-30s with an older half brother I haven’t seen in 20 years. He started calling me several years ago, and we speak sporadically (always instigated by him). He’s married and refers to me as the aunt to his four children (whom I’ve never met). Recently, he […]

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2020’s Local Wins and Losses: The Boot and Slipper Return!

While the boot and slipper are only occasional visitors on this page nowadays, it seemed fitting to dust them off as we look back at 2020

In days past, the topics found on the opinion page of the Source Weekly were classified by the “boot” and the “glass slipper.” Politicians acting badly warranted a boot; favorable ones got the slipper. While the boot and slipper are only occasional visitors on this page nowadays, it seemed fitting to dust them off as […]

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Drop Dud, Gorgeous & Fate Club

Note that fighter planes have an “ejection seat” and not a “go down in a flaming wreck” seat

Drop Dud, Gorgeous I typically avoid conflict to keep from having ugly conversations. I’m in an unhappy relationship, and it’s clearly not fixable. I always rely on the other person to end a relationship, even when it’s making me really miserable. Why do I do this, and how do I change? โ€”Stuck Girl Note that […]

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Pro File: Jules Jimreivat, Professional Rock Climber

Local female climber, relatively new to Bend, talks about solving puzzles, rock climbs and the future

Plastered to a sheer rock face, hundreds of feet above the ground, gripping tiny holds with her fingers and standing on dime-width edges, Jules Jimreivat surveys the current landscape, her only safety being a 9-millimeter-thick climbing rope connected to her waist harness, and her skill and mental toughness developed through years of climbing. Like a […]

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Letters to the Editor 11/19/20

Two Weeks, Delusional Donald, Homeless Camp, Give Thanks by Setting a Humane Table and In Deschutes County, Phil Chang Wins, New Pot Farms Get the Boot News

Editor’s note: At the start of the pandemic, the over-arching message shared by everyone from neighbors to government agencies was, “We’re all in this together.” Keep Calm and Carry On, a popular British slogan during WWII, was trotted out once again, in hopes of staving off panic. Those messages of solidarity and unity slowly went […]

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Seeing the Forest for the Trees

Worthy Brewing to host the Forest Revival Concert to see more trees planted and forests restored

Pioneer nurseryman John Chapman (1774-1845) might be buried in the duff of history if he wasn’t better known as Johnny Appleseed. Best remembered for his planting of wild apple trees wherever he traveled, Worthy Garden Club, the philanthropic arm of Worthy Brewing, has invoked Johnny’s folklore to seed Operation Appleseed by pledging $1 million toward […]

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