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The Camera Sutra
The Camera Sutra I really like the girl I’m dating, except for one thing. On every date, she asks me to take photos of her for Instagram. Afterward, she consults me repeatedly on which will “get the most likes.” I’m starting to get really annoyed, and I find it cuts into my enjoyment of our […]
Disappear Pressure & Tales From The Decrypted
Disappear Pressure I recently met this guy, and we’ve spent the entire past week together. Unfortunately, he’s moving across the countryโtomorrow. He asked whether I’d be open to dating after he moved. I panicked and said noโI’m really not looking for long-distanceโbut now that he’s leaving, I’m sad, and I’m worried I’ve made a mistake. […]
Free Will AstrologyโWeek of September 2
VIRGO (Aug. 23-Sept. 22): “I often wonder who I am and where is my country and where do I belong and why was I ever born at all,” wrote Virgo author Jean Rhys (1890โ1979). I don’t think you will be agitated by those questions during the next eight weeks, Virgo. In fact, I suspect you […]
Wii Are Not Amused
Wii Are Not Amused During quarantine, my boyfriend started spending two or three hours a night playing video games. Not only do I think this is unhealthy (since video games apparently lead to violence and psychological problems), but I think gaming has become a coping mechanism/escape tool for him. How can I get him to […]

