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Why Foreplay Doesnโ€™t Work โ€” And What Does

Why focusing on โ€œitโ€ is keeping you from what you really want

Dear Dr. Jane, My wife and I are having trouble with intimacy. I use foreplay, but sheโ€™s still distant and even rejecting. What am I doing wrong? I thought that this stuff was supposed to work. From, Foreplay Failure in Bend Dear Foreplay Failure, Everywhere you look thereโ€™s another article or tik tok about how […]

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We Are All Afraid

We need each other so much more than we could ever imagine.

Last monthโ€™s message was titled We Are All One. Simply said, we need each other so much more than we could ever imagine. This understanding of life puts peace in my head and my heart. Even if you and I disagree on many things, you and I might very well need one another sometimeโ€ฆsoon. I […]

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The Psychedelic Frontier: Week of Nov. 27

Spiritual or chemical reaction?

Q: โ€œHow do I know if my psychedelic experience was ‘real’ Spiritual insight or just neurochemical effectsโ€”and does it matter?โ€ A: This question resonates deeply with me personally, touches on themes that have come up for my clients recently, and hits squarely at the heart of current psychedelic consciousness research. Emerging science suggests this question […]

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Saying Grace

Famous Last Words

Remember when you received your first copy of AARP Magazine? It felt like a cold hand reaching up from the grave. Looking the other way, you picked it up like a dead mouse, a page pinched between forefinger and thumb, and threw it in the trash. Fast forward a decade or two and, admit it, […]

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IV Nutritional Therapy: Optimizing Cellular Metabolism

The focus of nutrition in every form through diet and supplements has become a cornerstone of medicine, and important for anyone interested in treating disease states as well as improving health and vitality.  While taking in nutrition and supplements orally is the obvious choice in most circumstances, delivering vitamins, minerals and other compounds by an […]

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Mapping Love

A localโ€™s perspective on place and love through time

Growing up in high school, I heard that Millican was the place to make out. I never made it out that far โ€” or really that far in general โ€” but every time I pass a certain basalt rock monument in Drake Park I do remember kissing someone by Mirror Pond under the stars. Most […]

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We Are All One

After writing inspirational messages for 25 years, I’m starting a slightly new chapter involving some version of poetry or lyrics

WE are all one. We ARE all one. We are ALL one. We are all ONE. Say each line to yourself and put emphasis on each capitalized word.         Slowly repeat.                                               […]

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What Central Oregon Seniors Need to Know About The Upcoming Year With Medicare

Explaining options during Medicare’s Annual Enrollment Period

For many Central Oregon residents, fall doesn’t just mean changing leaves and cooler temperatures. It also marks the arrival of Medicareโ€™s Annual Enrollment Period. Running from Oct. 15 to Dec. 7, AEP is the one time of year when most people with Medicare can make changes to their coverage for the following year. Whether you’re […]

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