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How To Get on Track in the Bedroom in the New Year

Connect intimately with your partner even when things are difficult

Dear Dr. Jane, My partner and I have a great relationship in almost every aspect. Me (m 32) her (f 30) no kids, 2 rescue pups. Together 5 years. Not married but we live together with a chill guy roommate. Unfortunately, intimacy (the physical kind) has been a challenge for years. We try to talk […]

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Have a Happy New Year?

Yes, that IS a question mark after the headline above. Not a typographical error. So, whatโ€™s up with the question mark? Here we goโ€ฆ I like and can live merrily with, Merry Christmas.                                                                                    Likewise, I like and can live joyfully with, Happy Hannukah. Although originally celebrated for 12 days, Christmas currently is often a one […]

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The Psychedelic Frontier Dec. 25

Traditional vs Modern Approaches

Q: After 20+ years in traditional indigenous ceremonies with mushrooms, peyote, and ayahuasca in South and Central America, I’m watching local options emerge with both curiosity and apprehension. Most seem facilitated by mental health professionals or those with limited connection to indigenous roots. What’s the difference between these approaches and traditional circles? Are there benefits or […]

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Star Quality

Observations about what’s above us

A few years ago I headed to Oregonโ€™s Summer Lake Wildlife Area to meet friends for our annual spring bird-a-thon. Armed with binoculars, the Merlin Bird ID app and bird books, we good humoredly tried to outdo each otherโ€™s species count. Come nightfall, I took in the staggering beauty of the Milky Way that claimed […]

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Why Foreplay Doesnโ€™t Work โ€” And What Does

Why focusing on โ€œitโ€ is keeping you from what you really want

Dear Dr. Jane, My wife and I are having trouble with intimacy. I use foreplay, but sheโ€™s still distant and even rejecting. What am I doing wrong? I thought that this stuff was supposed to work. From, Foreplay Failure in Bend Dear Foreplay Failure, Everywhere you look thereโ€™s another article or tik tok about how […]

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We Are All Afraid

We need each other so much more than we could ever imagine.

Last monthโ€™s message was titled We Are All One. Simply said, we need each other so much more than we could ever imagine. This understanding of life puts peace in my head and my heart. Even if you and I disagree on many things, you and I might very well need one another sometimeโ€ฆsoon. I […]

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The Psychedelic Frontier: Week of Nov. 27

Spiritual or chemical reaction?

Q: โ€œHow do I know if my psychedelic experience was ‘real’ Spiritual insight or just neurochemical effectsโ€”and does it matter?โ€ A: This question resonates deeply with me personally, touches on themes that have come up for my clients recently, and hits squarely at the heart of current psychedelic consciousness research. Emerging science suggests this question […]

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Saying Grace

Famous Last Words

Remember when you received your first copy of AARP Magazine? It felt like a cold hand reaching up from the grave. Looking the other way, you picked it up like a dead mouse, a page pinched between forefinger and thumb, and threw it in the trash. Fast forward a decade or two and, admit it, […]

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IV Nutritional Therapy: Optimizing Cellular Metabolism

The focus of nutrition in every form through diet and supplements has become a cornerstone of medicine, and important for anyone interested in treating disease states as well as improving health and vitality.  While taking in nutrition and supplements orally is the obvious choice in most circumstances, delivering vitamins, minerals and other compounds by an […]

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